Overnight
My message and my preaching were not with wise and persuasive words,
but with a demonstration of the Spirit's power, so that your faith
might not rest on men's wisdom, but on God's power.
-1 Corinthians 2:4-5
Walking around the house
with one of her cigarettes hanging out of my mouth usually worked
pretty well. More often than not, I'd get the attention that I craved
from my mom, once she caught on.
She had smoked for as long as I could remember, and by the time I
was 11, I not only knew that messing with her cigarettes was a way
to push her buttons, I was also curious about how smoking worked-what
they tasted like and if they made you feel more grown up. For a few
years, she would laugh at me and shake her head, playing a kind of
cat and mouse game with me until I gave up the cigarette that I had
playfully pulled from her pack of Marlboros. Then, one day when I
was 12, she handed me a cigarette and allowed me to light it up.
I started smoking.
I shared cigarettes with my mom, smoking around the house after school.
Soon I began to befriend other kids who smoked, and for some reason,
it was easy to sneak around the campus and bathrooms at my school
to take a few puffs in between classes. By eighth grade, I needed
these cigarette breaks. Smoking had become a habit-I was addicted.
It was no longer a choice.
One day, there was an assembly at our junior high school which featured
a guy who had cancer of the throat. It was pretty eerie to hear him
speak. He had to talk through a speaker in his throat because he had
lost the use of his vocal cords. In this electric-sounding, monotone
type of voice, he tried to warn my friends and me to stop smoking
so that we wouldn't turn out like him. I remember thinking to myself,
I will never be like that!
Then later that year my grandpa died of lung cancer. I dealt with
it by telling myself that I needed to smoke more to deal with his
death. Weird logic, huh? But smoking had become a crutch, and I used
the excuse that it comforted me.
By the time I was 17, in my junior year of high school, I was smoking
a pack and a half a day. It was also then that I decided I wanted
to be a lifeguard. So I tried to quit smoking.
It was hard.
I couldn't do it.
I figured then that I would always be a smoker, because it was just
impossible for me to quit. I was able to cut down, but I couldn't
cut it completely out of my life. So I told everyone that I had a
terrible fear of diving as an excuse not to get certified as a lifeguard.
Deep down I knew that I didn't have the endurance to save a drowning
life.
Around that time, a friend invited me to come with her to her church
youth group. I had been there a few times as a fifth grader, but now
I was in high school, full of a past that I wondered if people could
see as I walked into the room. But when I looked at the teens in the
youth group, they smiled and seemed too preoccupied with being happy
to notice anything negative about me.
The meeting was pretty fun overall until it came time for what they
called "confession." There I was, feeling kind of trapped,
knowing that my turn would come around. When it came, I felt like
there was a huge, hot spotlight shining on me. At the last minute,
I came up with something to say. Some of the teens in the youth group
knew I smoked, so I decided to just use that as something to confess.
"I smoke a pack a day," I divulged.
I felt that if these positive, happy people knew I smoked a pack and
a half a day, it might rock their world too much. Little did I know
that the One it mattered to the most already knew how much I smoked
and how much I lied about it. But what did I know about anything like
that? I wasn't a Christian-I was a partyer! I decided that I shouldn't
dare confess any of the other illegal stuff I smoked.
In reply to my confession, the youth pastor asked me, "Do you
believe that God can heal you from the addiction of smoking?"
I really wasn't expecting him to throw such a question at me, so I
sat there thinking for a minute. Finally, I thought to myself, it's
worth a shot, I've tried everything else, and so I responded, "Yeah.
Sure."
Looking back now, I realize that I was just testing the reality of
God. The group prayed for him to break me from the addiction of smoking,
and in the prayer, they prayed that I would have the strength to go
home and throw my cigarettes and lighter away.
The next morning, I woke up nauseated at the smell of smoke from my
mom's cigarette burning. I was shocked. How could this be? I actually
tried to smoke, but it made me sick to my stomach. Me-the pack-and-a-half-a-day
girl could no longer stand even the smell of smoke.
Not possible.
Unreal.
I could no longer imagine having the desire to smoke. In some weird
way, I had the feeling that I had never even lit a cigarette before!
There was just no way that I could have made this change on my own
after five years of smoking every day. It was definitely a God thing.
He had definitely done a modern-day miracle in my life.
In a way, I felt like my image was shot. I had thought it was cool
to be a smoker. It was a status thing. But eventually I gave up smoking
other things, too, because it didn't make sense to me to do one and
not the other. Besides, I had completely lost the craving for smoking
anything.
It took some coming around, but I also finally decided to ask God
into my life. It wasn't easy at first. Slowly but surely I realized
that some of the things I had been holding on to really didn't compare
to what I got from being in a relationship with God.
It's true that the truth will set you free, and the truth is this:
he is a powerful, loving God who answers prayers and changes lives.
He changed mine overnight.
Renee Krapf
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